alcoholism memory
My past has the best of me is there hope for a future.?
I went through a pretty dramatic child hood, my father was an alcoholic there was vivid memories and recognition of all symptoms that come along with it. I’ve finally let myself down enough to met a boy, we’ve been together for four months and it is wonderful, unfortunately as it is said you generally date boys like your father and he is identical but in most good ways. Alcoholism runs in his family he has an addictive personality but recognizes it, he has quit smoking and only parties socially but is more focused on school and his job. He can get slightly “verbally abusive” in arguments and puts me into a tizzy about bipolar and future verbal abuse issues. Our last fight it was brought to his attention and he understands its an issue. Should i just chill out and believe in him or worry? ahhh help
I saw verbally abusive and thought “dump him”. Is that really something that you want to have to deal with? And even if he goes months and months with out being abusive is it something that you want your children to see?
Talk to him about your concerns when you are not fighting. See if he is willing to get professional help. If I were in your shoes I would cut my losses and get out now.
Alcohol or Sedative Induced Memory Loss
Do you ever find you cannot remember a part of what happened during the period of time you were drinking, maybe an event (don’t remember going to bed) or a conversation? If this loss of memory while drinking has happened more than just a few times when you first began your drinking career, and has become a pattern of behavior, then it may be a significant indicator that you have a problem with alcohol. There are two types of alcohol induced memory loss. One is called a fragmentary memory loss; this type has often referred to as a “brownout” or “greyout”, and usually looks like this: I drank to the point of being drunk (beyond buzzed), and did not remember a particular event that happened while I was drinking until someone mentioned it to me the next day; then, after I was given a cue about the event, I remembered it. This type of memory loss is more common than the second form of memory loss that I will describe here. The greyout or fragmentary memory loss should not be dismissed as unimportant if it happens regularly enough to be considered a pattern of behavior resulting from excessive drinking. Getting drunk as a pattern of behavior will result in negative consequences and can be an important indicator of a problem.
The other type of alcohol induced memory loss is called a blackout or more technically, an en bloc memory loss. With this type of memory loss, the individual cannot recall the information (which can be about events during a short period of time, or for hours, or can be intermittent, i.e., the person goes in and out of a blackout), no matter how often he/she is reminded of it. The information is not available. This type of blackout can occur in novice or new drinkers who may at the beginning of their drinking drink too much too fast out of inexperience or due to the pressures of the moment and, typically, blackout, vomit, and pass out. The new drinker will usually figure out how to pace drinks and avoid the vomit-blackout experience. These novice blakouts are not usually of diagnostic significance.
Thus, the reaction of the individual to a pattern of blackouts may be more important than how often they occur. Blackouts should be a cause of great concern and result in efforts to prevent them. The lack of concern, or, the inability to drink without blackouts, would signify a serious problem and, probably, alcoholism. En bloc blackouts that occur as a recurring pattern of behavior (even once a month, for example) are serious indicators of a problem with alcohol (or any other sedative drug).
If you (or someone you know) have a pattern of complete blackouts (not referring to the length of time, but the inability to recall the information), I suggest that you seek help from a mental health professional with expertise in addictions. See my online addictions counseling services at http://www.alcoholdrugsos.com.
About the Author
In addition to his law degree, Jan Edward Williams has a Master of Science degree in pastoral counseling, and is a licensed clinical alcohol and drug counselor. He has personal and professional experience to aid him in helping persons with alcohol and other drug problems. He is in recovery himself, with over 29 years of continuous sobriety, and has been working in the drug and alcohol field for 27 years. Recently Jan has developed an online drug and alcohol abuse counseling service, called AlcoholDrugSOS Services. This service is aimed at helping persons with drug abuse or addiction problems or alcohol abuse or addiction (alcoholism) problems. His web site is http://www.alcoholdrugsos.com/, and his e-mail is jwilliams@alcoholdrugsos.com.
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