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Would I be cheating if he can’t perform due to health reasons?
Married 7years, marriage not consumated because he had a problem that he said would get better. Viagra didn’t work. It never did. Turns out he was diagnosed with heart failure due to a life time of alcoholism. He knew he couldn’t “get it up” when he married me but kept it a secret. I’m 50 and he’s 60. I’ve thought of an extra marital affair but my conscious bothers me. I still feel the need for “it”, but there is no physical contact between us (separate beds) as he has no libido. Toys don’t do it for me and I feel trapped and very depressed. It is an embarrasing subject and he refuses to communicate about it. How many marriages survive like this? Am I too old to go on? I need a hug. Anyone in the same boat? Nevertheless I stay. How can one leave an ill partner…for better or worse right? I feel like I’m already dead and too dumb to drop. At this point I have no sexual feelings for him and don’t think I ever will again. He refuses to have an “open” relationship. 
Sweetie, if you have addressed the issue of ‘open relationship’ with him, and he refuses to allow that, then you are perfectly within your rights to leave him.
He married you under false pretenses, by not revealing to you how serious his physical/mental probems are. You have NO legal or MORAL bond to hold you in this marriage. I am 62!!…And believe me, there is still a LOT of living left in me!!!…You’ve got 12 more than I do…GO FOR THE GUSTO!!
Cause of Gout May Also Predict Heart Failure
Eswar Krishnan, MD, assistant professor of immunology and rheumatology at Stanford University School of Medicine, has found that high uric acid levels are a link between gout and heart failure.
Timothy Spaulding, a Top Health Blogger for the Arthritis Community on Wellsphere and author of the Current Arthritis News and Research Blog explains in his recent article.
Spaulding explains that uric acid naturally occurs in the body as a byproduct of many different foods. High levels are best known as a cause of gout.
According to Dr. Krishnan, the “study shows that high levels of uric acid significantly increase your risk of developing heart failure later in life.”
The good news is that the test for measuring this is very cheap and easily available. In fact, a simple $2-blood test may allow doctors to determine whether a patient is at risk of developing heart failure sometime in their future.
Dr. Krishnan analyzed data obtained from the National Heart, Lung and Blood Institute participants of the Framingham Offspring cohort study. That study began in 1971 and the participants were followed for cardiovascular events for 25 years.
There were 4,989 participants in the Framingham Offspring study, and of those, 4,912 were eligible for Dr. Krishnan’s study. There were 196 cases of heart failure recorded.
After adjusting for a long list of variables including smoking, weight, alcohol use, diabetes, kidney problems and use of anti-hypertensive medications, Dr. Krishnan found the occurrence of heart failure was significantly higher among those with high uric acid levels.
So if you suffer from Gout make sure to talk to your doctor about your risk for heart problems. Also check out Flexcin the all-natural Joint Pain Supplement. The primary component of Flexcin is CM8 which relieves joint pain at its source, reduces inflammation and irritation of the joints and tissues. It has been helpful for many sufferers of arthritis, gout, bursitis, sports injuries and fibromyalgia.
The study appears online in August in the journal Circulation: Heart Failure.
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